If someone asked me to choose one thing in the world that I like to do more than anything it would be traveling. Most of the time, I travel alone, but I am not always alone. Sometimes I am hardly ever alone. Spending time with locals is a gift that gives you a close and personal view of the culture. Living with locals gives you an opportunity to be a part of a family. Meeting other travelers can give you lifelong friendships that develop over very short periods of time. This blog serves to share advice to other dreamers and travelers, particularly to women heading out to a faraway place for the first time. The one thing I can say to all of you is: get out there, wander the earth and wonder what the next turn in the road brings. An adventure awaits you.

Thursday, March 29, 2012

Eat outside your comfort zone.

What is the point of traveling, especially to different countries? To simply see a few famous sites, take a photo, and then go eat dinner at McDonald’s or Applebee's? Although I’m sure that is true for some people, my answer is a loud and resounding:  No! I love to travel for many different reasons, too many to list and some I probably cannot even explain. But most of all, I love to meet different people, see different things and unfamiliar places, and experience the norm of local everyday life in a way that is not normal for me. And this includes eating.

In the United States, every town, city, suburban area, and state has basically the same chain restaurants, and many of these restaurants can be found overseas:  McDonald's, Taco Bell, Wendy’s, Burger King, Kentucky Fried Chicken, TGI Friday’s, Applebee’s. The list goes on and on. I, however, prefer eating in independently and locally owned restaurants, wherever I am. Locally owned restaurants, diners, cafes, cafeterias, fast food eateries, and food trucks have better food in my experience, often times locally grown, and the profits go directly back into the community. I’m not against the above named national restaurant chains or any of the big chains. They do employ local people and some of them aren’t all that bad. And when you don’t have many choices (or even if you do), it’s where you go for lunch with coworkers or dinner with friends. But I do prefer the more unique and interesting local businesses where they are available.

Along with my efforts to frequent local businesses at home, when I’m traveling I do the same, only probably more so. If you are visiting another country, witnessing the uniqueness of another culture, there is no better way to experience a new place than through food ... local food, the food that those who live there eat every day.

During my first trip to Latin America, I was with a group of people helping to build a house near the southern Pacific coast of Costa Rica, and we were not there long. Maybe a little over a week. I was enjoying the local food, especially the rice and beans. But when we left the coast and were back in the city of San Jose for our flight home the next day, everyone made a beeline for Pizza Hut for dinner. Seriously? A few days in another country and everyone felt the need to connect with the homeland through mediocre (at best) pizza from the states? I broke off from the group and found a bakery and some local eats. Costa Rican food. Because we were still in Costa Rica

This just seems obvious to me ... eating local. I can understand if you are traveling abroad for a few weeks or months and you get a craving for something familiar. Maybe you think some fast food from home would really hit the spot. I get it. I’ve been there. And I’m not suggesting you only eat regional food. If you want pizza, then eat pizza from a local restaurant, rather than Pizza Hut. If you want a cheeseburger, then eat it from a local fast food restaurant rather than Burger King. I've had awesome Indian food in Guatemala, great Italian food in Puerto Rico, and delicious Greek pizza in Panama. Just because something isn’t native to where you are visiting, doesn’t mean you can’t find an interesting variation of it. But you won’t know unless you step out of your comfort zone.
Here are my friends (Sarah, Hanna and Anna) at a local Guatemalan fast food chain after we ate really 
yummy ice cream cones. There were no tourists in there except us. It was still cheap and
unhealthy food. But it wasn't McDonald's!  
Before you take that trip abroad, to a new country with new customs, languages, and foods, try to leave your usual eating habits behind. When you see a restaurant that looks familiar, or that you would see in your country, just walk on by. One of the grandest ways to experience a new culture is through your taste buds. And you’re not going to have that experience if you keep falling back on what is familiar to you. Change those french fries or baked potato for a tamal or an arepa. Exchange that Big Mac for a local dish at a little cafe on the town square. Give up what you usually eat so you can have a truly fun and interesting travel experience. Because if you can’t even do that, then what is the point of traveling? If you can’t give up the chain food, you might as well just stay home and call the pizza delivery guy. 

Thursday, March 15, 2012

Use your network.

One of my friends is getting ready to go on her first trip abroad. Nickie and her boyfriend are taking a Mediterranean cruise and will spend some time in Rome and other cities in Italy, Greece and Turkey. Knowing this, and knowing that another friend of mine, Michelle, had spent several days in Rome last fall, I asked her to provide some travel tips for Nickie. So she shared the name of an incredible tour guide in Rome, a good way to plan ahead for a visit to the Vatican, and some advice on what to do for food (you can’t really go wrong in Italy when it comes to food, which is no big surprise). Then I emailed my friend Pep about his trip with his family to Greece last summer and if he had any tips. Sure enough, he did. Even though Nickie won’t be spending as much time there, she now has a better idea of what might be possible in their limited time.

And that is the point of today’s blog post: networking. Everyone is crazy for networking these days. Social networking. Networking for work. Networking events. Networking whatever. But it is useful for planning your travels as well. Let your friends, family, coworkers, acquaintances, and distant relatives know you are taking a trip and see if they have been there, or if they know anyone who has.* This can help you make plans on what to see, what to skip, where to go, how to get there, and may even connect you with someone local who will make your trip even more interesting and special.

(The most memorable time this happened to me was in Mexico and I discussed it in this blog post.)

Sometimes there is no connection, and that’s okay. That doesn’t mean the trip won’t still be amazing or that you won’t find remarkable things on your own. If you’ve been following this blog, you know I’m all for solo travel and blazing your own trail (see posts here and here). But perchance you do make a connection before your trip, it could be really helpful and/or add something special to your trip that you may not have known about otherwise. So ask those seasoned travelers in your own personal network. You never know who or what they know. Or who or what the people they know know. Ya know?  Networking can sometimes lead to some awesome places.

* Side note: I'm sure you know this, but it bears repeating. When using Facebook to seek such advice, please do not post on your wall that you will be out of town or when you will be out of town. Keep it simple, e.g. “Hey, has anyone been to Athens?” Not, “Hey, we’re going to Athens for two weeks starting July 1 and we need some advice.” Response: “Hey hospitable home robbery victims, thanks for the heads up. We really like your TV, sound system, laptops and jewelry collection. Hope you had fun in Greece!” Networking can sometimes lead to some not-so-awesome places. Just beware.