If someone asked me to choose one thing in the world that I like to do more than anything it would be traveling. Most of the time, I travel alone, but I am not always alone. Sometimes I am hardly ever alone. Spending time with locals is a gift that gives you a close and personal view of the culture. Living with locals gives you an opportunity to be a part of a family. Meeting other travelers can give you lifelong friendships that develop over very short periods of time. This blog serves to share advice to other dreamers and travelers, particularly to women heading out to a faraway place for the first time. The one thing I can say to all of you is: get out there, wander the earth and wonder what the next turn in the road brings. An adventure awaits you.

Thursday, May 30, 2013

Pack a snack.


I have family in the Midwest and recently flew back to Texas from Sioux Falls, South Dakota, after a week in Iowa. This was a couple days after the horrible tornado in Moore, Oklahoma, and another storm cell had passed through the Dallas area earlier on the day of my flight. As a result, many flights had been delayed in a chain reaction. I was flying through Dallas, and my flight from Sioux Falls was delayed two hours. These things happen when you travel. There’s nothing you can do but go with it. 

So I went with it. I got to Dallas, it was around 11:00 at night and the place was jammed. People were lined up at almost every gate. Many were running, desperately trying one last time to catch a connecting flight. I went to the gate of my rebooked flight and the woman told me that at another gate, they were just loading my earlier flight and I should go there. “Quick!” she said. So I joined the runners, grateful that I wore tennis shoes.

I got to the gate and was worried that if they had rebooked me on the later flight, I wouldn’t be allowed on the earlier flight. Then I would have to run back to the other flight and try to get on that one, or be stuck in Dallas for the night. It was a nail biter. But I got on the flight, after some mad typing by the ticket taker at the gate that made me nervous. We got into Austin ahead of schedule, but we weren’t really there. We were in Austin, at the airport, but because of all the flight back-up, we didn’t have a gate to go to. And when you don’t have a gate, you can’t get off the plane. So we waited. And waited. For about 45 minutes. Which considering some of the stories we’ve all heard on the news about planes being stuck on the tarmac for three or four hours (or more), isn’t that bad. The pilot also kept us informed of what was going on, so that was good. What he told us made us groan in unison, but at least we weren’t just sitting there without a clue as to why.

Being delayed in Sioux Falls for two hours and then on the Austin tarmac aren’t the worst flight stories I’ve heard or myself encountered. I have been delayed much longer. I have run much further. And sometimes for naught. Like I said before, there’s very little you can do in many travel circumstances. Flying can be totally inconvenient. But how else do you get so far so quickly? Granted, the “quickly” doesn’t always apply, but it is amazing when it works.

Because of the craziness of air travel, when I fly, I take snacks. Sure, there is food in the airport, but the prices are high and as I described earlier in this post, sometimes you don’t have time to dilly-dally. Also, airlines are not very generous with the snacks these days. And forget meals unless you are going abroad, and I mean way abroad – like Europe. I haven’t had a meal on a plane to Latin America in ages. These days, you are lucky to get peanuts on most flights, and those little bags have about six peanuts in them. If you are desperate, sometimes they will sell you snacks. But you could probably buy yourself some nice jewelry for the price of a snack box on a flight.

This is why I take my own snacks. I hate being hungry. And when I am hungry, I am hungry. So I pack a sandwich, cheese or peanut butter, nothing fancy. I bring some trail mix, and/or yogurt covered pretzels, and/or almonds. I usually have a granola bar stashed in my purse. I’ve taken crackers, cookies, and fruit. If I have an early morning flight and I have a long day of traveling ahead with little connection time, sometimes I buy a sandwich at the airport where my travel originates and eat it on my second flight. And I always, always buy a bottle of water once I have checked in at the airport and gone through security. Yes, the airlines do still serve beverages on flights. But I do not rely on them for all my hydration. If you are one of those poor souls stuck on a tarmac somewhere and they stop serving drinks, then at least you have your own water. Hopefully your fellow passengers won’t attack you in a mad fit of thirst.

This may seem like overkill to some of you. I know a guy who travels by plane for his job all the time. I am pretty sure he never packs snacks. I am pretty sure my brother, who normally eats way more than I do, never packs snacks. I doubt that most of my friends without kids pack snacks. But I am not a camel like these people. I cannot be sustained by my built-in energy reserves if I’m stuck on the tarmac at some airport. The truth is, I cannot be sustained for three hours. Sad, I know.

Case in point: when I flew to Guatemala, I packed a cheese sandwich. Fairly boring, but meant for lunch in case I didn’t get lunch. I don’t recall if I got lunch in my connecting airport that day, but by the time I got to Guatemala City I was hungry. I thought I would be able to get something to eat before I caught a bus to Xela, but that didn’t happen. I got to the bus station, got on my bus fairly quickly, and prepared for the four-hour bus ride. I soon realized that I wasn’t on the “express” bus, meaning we were stopping every couple of miles to pick people up. So we were traveling much slower than I had expected. I ate my boring sandwich, and that was great. I was so glad I had brought it. But that solved only one bodily issue.

When we got further away from the city, I wobbled to the back of the bus to use the restroom. It was now dark outside and dark inside the bus, too. When I opened the bathroom door, there was no light. So I went back to the front of the bus to ask the driver to turn on the light. He did, but it was quite dim. We were traveling on very curvy roads. I could hardly stand up (ladies, you know how we do not sit on a public toilet, especially one on a bus). It was like surfing to pee and trying to hit a target. I couldn’t do it. I had to abort my mission. Back to the front of the bus I went, bladder still full and causing some mild discomfort at this point.

I managed to keep myself busy for the rest of the trip. I read my book with my flashlight. I dozed a bit. But how I wanted a bathroom! When I finally did arrive in Xela, my new boss was there waiting for me. I tried to manage our introductions, his welcome, and initial questions (“how was your trip?” etc.), but I still needed the bathroom. So I finally told him, “If I don’t find a bathroom, I may die.” Thankfully, he pulled out all the stops (is that a pun?) to find me one in a nearby cafe. Glory hallelujah!

Obviously, packing a snack only solved part of my problem on that particular trip. But it was a big part. If I didn’t have that sandwich, I would have probably gotten a headache and been really grumpy. That would have just added insult to injury, the injury being my stretched-to-the-maximum bladder.

This last trip from the upper midwest that was a little crazy, wasn’t really that crazy. As I said, I’ve experienced worse delays. And to be honest, I hardly touched my snacks this time ... and I had some good ones, too. But if you are going to have a long day of travel, or you have a short lay-over to catch a connecting flight, or if you have a very long flight that isn’t an overseas one that includes meals, or if you are not a camel either, then you should consider packing some snacks. If you’re like me, you will be much more ready to take in your destination with a clear head. And stay hydrated, too. Just not too hydrated!