If someone asked me to choose one thing in the world that I like to do more than anything it would be traveling. Most of the time, I travel alone, but I am not always alone. Sometimes I am hardly ever alone. Spending time with locals is a gift that gives you a close and personal view of the culture. Living with locals gives you an opportunity to be a part of a family. Meeting other travelers can give you lifelong friendships that develop over very short periods of time. This blog serves to share advice to other dreamers and travelers, particularly to women heading out to a faraway place for the first time. The one thing I can say to all of you is: get out there, wander the earth and wonder what the next turn in the road brings. An adventure awaits you.

Thursday, January 23, 2014

Be reminded.


The other day I went outside and thought, “It feels like Guatemala.” Now, I’m in Texas at the moment, where temperatures reach sweltering heights during the summer and the humidity makes you sweatier than a high school football team. But that is summer. Winter is a whole other story and a big reason many of us northern-folk migrate to the south. It can be amazing, spring-like, sunny, warm but not too warm, clear, dry, refreshing. Beautiful. Perfect. That is what the highlands of Guatemala felt like during the day most of the time I was there (nights, not so much as you can read here). And when the weather is just so, like it was the other day, it doesn’t just feel like Guatemala; I feel like I’m there. Just for a second.

If you’ve traveled, especially to places mostly different from your own, this phenomenon might happen to you as well. I call it the “wish you were there” virus. But it is not a bad virus. It is a bit of longing, mixed with nostalgia, swirling around your ever-present desire to roam the earth. When you are going through your day, commuting, working, shopping, cooking, cleaning, and all the other responsibilities you may have, sometimes a distant Guatemalan-like breeze blowing your hair as it pushes the faint smell of burning wood toward you is kind of nice. It’s a bit sad. But it’s mostly nice.

Sunny blue sky, short sleeves, sandals ... what better way to illustrate nice weather?
This is my dad and me in Antigua, Guatemala on a beautifully perfect day.

You may not have any idea what I’m talking about. That’s okay. But someday, when you’re somewhere quite different, or when you’ve been somewhere quite different, you may find yourself being reminded of that different place by the smallest thing: the smell of fresh bread, the sound of a bicycle bell, the wet air of a mid-summer thunderstorm. Your experience at home has changed because you have felt it in a different place. It is no longer just a snack, a sound in the street, a natural occurrence. It’s a memory, fastened to your brain, stimulating your smile muscles from time to time. You can’t forget. Nor do you want to.