If someone asked me to choose one thing in the world that I like to do more than anything it would be traveling. Most of the time, I travel alone, but I am not always alone. Sometimes I am hardly ever alone. Spending time with locals is a gift that gives you a close and personal view of the culture. Living with locals gives you an opportunity to be a part of a family. Meeting other travelers can give you lifelong friendships that develop over very short periods of time. This blog serves to share advice to other dreamers and travelers, particularly to women heading out to a faraway place for the first time. The one thing I can say to all of you is: get out there, wander the earth and wonder what the next turn in the road brings. An adventure awaits you.

Thursday, July 24, 2014

Don't let go, Part 3.


Through the good-bye tears in Connecticut, Ana Maria invited me to come to Venezuela to visit her and her family that summer. Since I was in a graduate program for Latin American and Caribbean Studies, I jumped at any chance I had to travel to the region. Top that with a big dollop of fresh and fun friendship, and it was impossible to say no. 

It was a changing time in Venezuela. The presidential elections were just around the corner, and one of the candidates, Hugo Chavez, was making waves. Crime was high, and most people I met had been robbed at gunpoint at least once. One of Ana Maria’s friends had been robbed, then thrown in the trunk of a car and left somewhere outside of his city – alive thankfully. But still ... holy crap!

Since Ana Maria had to work most days, I went with her back to her office after lunchtime. Lunch breaks outside the U.S. are the way lunch breaks should be: substantially long. She had enough time to drive all the way home, have a nice lunch, and even rest a little before being expected back at the office. I would return with her, and then venture to el Museo de Bellas Artes (Fine Arts Museum). I explored the museum, and also really enjoyed an afternoon snack of torta tres leches (three milk cake) y un café venezolano (strong-ass Venezuelan coffee; "espresso" to us North Americans) in the cute museum cafe with counter seating.

Initially, I didn’t do much more than that the first few days. And I started to get antsy. I wanted to explore more. But my hosts were afraid for my safety – a reasonable fear, although I did not share it at the same level. I was a giddy traveler, eager to explore and see everything and anything. My brain had no room for fear.

To alleviate the ants in my pants, Ana Maria’s parents took me to a nearby town one afternoon: Colonia Tovar, Germany ... er, I mean Venezuela. It just looks like a European town. Alpine-style buildings lining the hilly streets. Many blonde, blue-eyed people who are not tourists or transplants. Colonia Tovar was settled by Germans in 1843 and the obvious influence is why the town is such a tourist attraction and why it is called “the Germany of the Caribbean.” I don’t recall there being much for this vegetarian to eat in Colonia Tovar at the time, which was unfortunate. But even more unfortunate were the dead pigs hanging from meat hooks in a cafe where we stopped. Let’s just say it was not as enjoyable for me as was the architecture you can see here. Ana Maria’s parents evidently still make fun of me for my reaction to the aforementioned lunchmeat situation. Ha ha. So funny.

Another day I insisted on going back to El Hatillo, a cute part of Caracas Ana Maria had taken me to earlier. I told her I would take a bus -- I was determined to go. But because of the safety issues, she took me herself at lunchtime and arranged to have her friend pick me up later in the day. I wandered the quaint and colorful streets, shopped in some local stores, and relaxed in a cafe overlooking the town square. When AnaMa’s friend Barbara got there, she found me in a large store filled with locally made ceramic espresso cup sets. I spent an exorbitant amount of time there, trying to find something for myself. I finally decided on a set of four little light blue espresso cups, with a little light blue creamer and a little light blue sugar bowl that fit on a little dark wood tray. All little for the little amount of Venezuelan coffee necessary to keep you up for approximately 18 hours straight.

Ana Maria also took me on some road trips. We went to Puerto La Cruz, a beach town east of Caracas. We stayed with one of her friends and took a water taxi to a nearby island to enjoy the sun and sand. We also drove to Isla de Plata, on a windy road that brought us to a port town where we took a boat to a secluded island beach. Beautiful white sand, turquoise water, cute local kids running around, playing soccer in the sand. And yes, I have photos. Unfortunately, like most of my travel photos before the digital age, they are all in storage (sorry). And also unfortunate is the fact that I cannot find a thing online about this place, so no mini-geography lesson either. I honestly have no idea where the heck Isla de Plata in Venezuela is (do you?). But it is lovely. And we had a lot of fun road tripping and relaxing by the sea.

I was fascinated with Caracas, the nearby beaches, the beautiful mountains, the German town, the beach towns. The coffee was amazing (and eye opening as I previously mentioned), the people were nice, the weather was great, and it was impossible for me to feel scared or threatened. Of course, I was cautious (always am – read here and here). But one thing is sure, no one knew at that time how severely Venezuela would change in just a few short months.

After that trip, Ana Maria and I stayed in touch, some times more often than others. Shortly after Chavez became El Presidente, she moved to Spain. And she’s been there ever since. And no, Part 4 will not be about me visiting Spain, because that unfortunately has not happened yet.

But do stay tuned ... 

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